Tips To Help Your Mood
Everybody adjusts to the idea of being a parent at their own pace. Try not to worry if you can’t quite believe it, or if you don’t feel as excited as you expected to straight away.
Talking and singing to your baby while they’re still in the womb can help both parents begin to build a lasting bond. It can help you begin to feel a stronger connection with your baby and make it seem more ‘real’. This can help you feel more positive and lift your mood.
Your unborn baby will learn to recognise and remember important voices during pregnancy. The ‘chats’ that you have with your bump are good for you both.
It can help you feel more confident and ‘ready’ if you do some thinking about how you want to parent and what your baby will need to feel cared for, safe and secure.
Pregnancy can be a time when you feel very close to your partner or at times it can put a lot of pressure on you both. You and your partner may not feel the same way about the pregnancy at the same time.
Pregnancy sometimes feels real to the pregnant person sooner - because they are already experiencing the physical changes and lifestyle changes it brings. Try and talk together about how you are feeling and share the experience with each other.
If you are in a troubled relationship this can really affect your mood and how you feel about becoming a parent. It is not good for unborn babies, or for their parents, to be around arguments and upsets. It is important that the people in your life are safe to be around for you and your baby.
If your worries and feelings start to make every day a struggle, and feel too much to cope with - talk with your Midwife, GP or Health Visitor. Health professionals are always available to support both parents.
It is always better for your baby when you ask for help. Health Professionals can help you understand your thoughts and feelings. They can help think of ways to make it feel better for you.
Pregnancy During Covid
This is a worrying time for everyone - especially when you have been asked to be extra careful because of your pregnancy.
There is a lot of information out there but not all of it is true. Stick to well known websites- like those from GOV.UK and NHS, or pages linked to from them.
Talk to your midwife, health visitor, or GP if you are struggling to have positive feelings about your unborn baby or worried about how you are feeling.
You can contact the Healthy Child Programme by calling Just One Number on 0300 300 0123 or texting Parentline on 07520 631590. Our opening hours are 8am-6pm Monday-Friday (excluding bank holidays) and 9am-1pm on Saturdays.
If you are 11-19 you can text Chathealth on 07480 635060 for confidential advice from one of our team.
Qwell provides free, safe and anonymous mental wellbeing support for adults in Norfolk and Waveney from a professional team of qualified counsellors.
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